How to Find Out If Your Partner Is Cheating Online

In our technologically advanced and hyper-connected world, infidelity has never been easier. From websites specifically designed for affairs to mobile applications to facilitate meetups, people have a wide variety of ways to cheat on their spouses.

It is often said that the primary cause of divorce is marriage. But why do people get married if they intend to cheat? That is the question that has befuddled civilisation for a long time. With technology making it readily available at a moment’s notice, the rates of infidelity may be climbing. Are you the victim of a cheating husband? It is not something society should be proud of, but here we are.

A common tactic of extramarital relations is through the smartphone as cheating partners text message each other in a vain attempt of having your cake and eating it, too. How do you know when your husband is having an affair? If you want an answer right away, contact a private detective to find out the truth. The investigation will either confirm your suspicions or put your worries to ease.

If your suspicions are just beginning to form, then start by looking at his cellphone habits – do you notice anything different? Here are ten ways on how to find out if your partner is cheating online:

1. Husband Suddenly Hides His Phone

Suspicious behaviour is an obvious way to find out if your partner is cheating online. Check if your partner is suddenly hiding his phone from you. For a long time, your husband would leave his phone lying around without much care. He would be indifferent if you picked it up or looked at it when he was keying in his code.

Lately? Well, now he is suddenly hiding the phone every chance he gets. This is a worrying sign because the behavioural change came out of nowhere. Sure, some people want privacy, but concealing a mobile device after a while of not caring is a red flag.

2. He Whispers When Talking on the Phone

Do you find that your husband is whispering when he is on his smartphone? Again, some people want privacy, but when this repeatedly happens, you should start getting concerned that your partner is cheating. Plus, if your husband is whispering on a phone call in the middle of the day, then that is something to inquire about.

3. A List of Unknown Number Calls

You have taken a look at your husband’s call list, and you have noticed a lot of unknown number calls.

Many people are indeed receiving an influx of scammers and spammers, but if you are seeing unknown number calls throughout the day several times a week, then this could be a sign that your spouse is cheating on you.

4. Standing Outside and Talking on the Phone

If your husband is standing outside (or hiding in a room) and talking on the phone, he doesn’t want you to hear what he is discussing. This is normal if it happens once in a while, but if your husband is taking a call outside on multiple occasions, you might be living with a cheating partner.

5. Little White Lies

Infidelity always begins with little white lies. They may be inconsequential at the beginning, but these little white lies add up over time. Indeed, it is hard for the liar to keep track because he will need to remember these lies – forever. It is nearly impossible to do, so it is up to you to remember his fibs.

6. Is He Nervous When You Have His Phone?

For a long time, he was indifferent when you touched his phone, played around with it, or were even around the device. Lately, however, he has become extremely nervous when you look at it. He starts fidgeting, he is flush in the face, he perspires, and he tries to come up with an excuse as to why you should not touch his smartphone.

7. Passwords or Codes Are Changed

You never wanted to access his phone, but your significant other was aware that you knew his passwords or codes in the event of an emergency. He never cared that you could access his Samsung Galaxy or Apple iPhone whenever you wanted. This apathy has transitioned to paranoia, which has prompted him to change his passwords or codes, preventing you from logging in at any time.

8. Strange Names in His Contact List

Wait a minute. Who is “Super Freak 98”? And, who is “Jogger For Life”? You never thought twice about Frank, Karen, and Jack on your husband’s contact list. After some adjustments to your relationship, you begin to wonder.

However, some of these strange names have sparked your curiosity. Why the odd names? Is it something iniquitous going on? Could one of these names be your husband’s mistress?

9. Deleted Text Messages

You always poked fun at your husband for keeping all of his text messages, even if they were three years old. Out of nowhere, all the text messages on your partner’s phone have been erased. They are gone and wiped out. Why? Perhaps he does not want you to find something, whether it is the woman he is having an affair with or a friend who commented on his newfound lover.

Put simply, everything is gone without a trace.

10. Your Husband Has a Second Phone

Imagine having a second phone only to communicate with another woman…

Well, a lot of men do that when they are having an affair. This allows them to avoid doing all the other things on this list with their primary phone. It is clever because it avoids any suspicion on the part of the wife. However, this all changes when she discovers the second smartphone.

There is the possibility that the second phone could be work-related. But then why would he conceal it? Perhaps he only has this device to talk to his mistress clandestinely.